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How to move beyond failure toward success?







What is holding us back from being successful?

The fear of making mistakes
 The fear of getting judged
The fear of getting mocked at
The fear of failure
The fear of losing despite trying very hard

Don't be afraid of trying, trying, trying till you succeed.
Always believe in your potential despite a hundred unwanted people telling you otherwise..
Always keep the flames of self-motivation burning.
Parents, please do not humiliate your kids when they make mistakes,
Sit them down, respect their efforts and humbly tell them the lesson hidden in that failure.
It is very important to learn from your mistakes and rather than cringing at them like a bad chapter, consider them shapers of your increased confidence and strong character.

Stop listening to the voices in the outside world of those buzzing in your mind.
Dictate them your achievements, no matter how small or big.
Do not let anyone bog you down by reminding you of your embarrassing moments in the past,
Show them how far you have come with your actions and words of praise (c'mon we all have a few of them worth smirking over if you just recall).
And then my dear, you'll meet some people who are immune to anything you say or do.
But I would say,
Keep doing, keep improving, keep loving yourself, keep working hard, keep rewarding yourself for those little achievements (not with desserts or junk food all the time, pals).
Because,
Your journey is extraordinary ,
Just like you.
You are working hard for yourself.
You are fulfilling your dreams for yourself.
You are doing all these things for yourself.
So, what others say, laugh, comment- DOES NOT MATTER!

Only a seasoned jeweler can recognise a real diamond.

You will get there with your perseverance, passion, smartness and indomitable will-power.
You will reach your goal.
You will fulfill your dream.
Just don't stop trying,
Don't stop living a little for yourself.
Take out some precious moments only for yourself.
They will take you far in the journey of life.






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The fear of getting Judged and the fear of getting mocked but just want to win over inner conflict of insecurities and dejection or feeling of lagging behind or lacking something.

- Himanshu singh (Himansh)

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