Marriage brings about a drastic transition in the life of a woman. You might think that it is the couple whose life gets affected and not only the females. There are umpteen number of jokes about women stealing the man's freedom and fancy ways of life. But have you ever given a good thought to the woman's side of the story? Here it goes:
The carefree, cerebracy, courageous and charismatic girl who was a head-turner to many becomes a careful, timid, domesticated, forgetful woman. This bride gives up her laid-back attitude and luxurious lifestyle for the sake of her newly married life. She is the one who has sacrificed a great deal to earn the suitable matrimonial alliance destiny has gifted to her.
Getting your breakfast ready according to your taste, wearing swanky clothes in colors of your choice, going on fun outings with friends, family and cousins, having the liberty to wake up and sleep according to your own time-table. It is a big deal for some of us who yearn for these simple pleasures of life that others take for granted.
Wow! Now you get it? The luxury of liberty is what I'm talking about here.
The married woman puts her family first and tends to neglect herself. She knows everyone's tastes, choices, requirements and favorites but hers are rarely a priority. She happily cooks for each member even if she's really hungry and can hardly wait but the content smiles of the family after finishing their meals gratifies her no end.
It is not like she is not cared or looked after by her family. However, the curiousity, constant inquisitiveness, loving care and conditioning of a mother is fondly and deeply missed by the married woman. But you know what?
She is still the happiest woman on earth because she is blessed with a family that stood with her through thick and thin, who forgave her serious mistakes, taught her all the skills she's fondly appreciated for, miss her during her absence, give her moral lessons like her own parents(now they are) and love her innate skills too...
Besides that, waking up to a person who deeply loves and cares for you even when he's angry is the best thing that could happen to a person.
Aahh! Marriage is indeed transformational.
Love & Light
The carefree, cerebracy, courageous and charismatic girl who was a head-turner to many becomes a careful, timid, domesticated, forgetful woman. This bride gives up her laid-back attitude and luxurious lifestyle for the sake of her newly married life. She is the one who has sacrificed a great deal to earn the suitable matrimonial alliance destiny has gifted to her.
Getting your breakfast ready according to your taste, wearing swanky clothes in colors of your choice, going on fun outings with friends, family and cousins, having the liberty to wake up and sleep according to your own time-table. It is a big deal for some of us who yearn for these simple pleasures of life that others take for granted.
Wow! Now you get it? The luxury of liberty is what I'm talking about here.
The married woman puts her family first and tends to neglect herself. She knows everyone's tastes, choices, requirements and favorites but hers are rarely a priority. She happily cooks for each member even if she's really hungry and can hardly wait but the content smiles of the family after finishing their meals gratifies her no end.
It is not like she is not cared or looked after by her family. However, the curiousity, constant inquisitiveness, loving care and conditioning of a mother is fondly and deeply missed by the married woman. But you know what?
She is still the happiest woman on earth because she is blessed with a family that stood with her through thick and thin, who forgave her serious mistakes, taught her all the skills she's fondly appreciated for, miss her during her absence, give her moral lessons like her own parents(now they are) and love her innate skills too...
Besides that, waking up to a person who deeply loves and cares for you even when he's angry is the best thing that could happen to a person.
Aahh! Marriage is indeed transformational.
Love & Light
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