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♥ Best Mother ♥

"Maa, Aai, Ammi, Amma, Mummy, Mom"

A mother is known by all these names and more epithets across the world. A mother is worshipped in India - a nation of cultural diversity and rich heritage. Mother is considered to keep the child safe, by all means. A mother need not be rich to provide good upbringing to her child. She is efficient and self-sufficient enough to not only run the household within a given budget but also inculcate sound moral values into her offspring.

Isn't it a mother we rush to, in order to solve our problems and issues? Don't we trust our mothers as a best confidante? A mother whose sacrifices begin right from the time the child forms into her womb. Mother is the person entrusted with the responsibility of developing a child's personality. Not just that, allowing innocent minds to identify and unleash their potential and abilities.

Every child is different. While parenting some could be as much fun as playing with a dolphin. However, some children require special attention, care, support and amicable environment. Having said that, I won't deny the fact  that all kids must be paid equal attention and care to, irrespective of their abilities.

Every person is born with a talent, we just need to unearth the hidden talent. Allow your child to see through his incompetencies and focus on his strengths instead. Don't waste time on nagging and whining about the spheres where he/she is lagging behind. Rather, take his/her weaknesses as areas of opportunities. Deal with patience because your impatience resulting in any form of disharmony and chaos can kill the positive spirit of your child.

Grooming is another important aspect of parenting entitled to moms. For girls, teach them dressing skills, people skills, communication skills, social skills, interpersonal skills and life skills as basics to ensure a well-rounded development of her personality. Won't you love it if your daughter shines out and makes a difference in the society? Nobody wants their kids to face public embarrassments and any sort of humiliation from anyone.

Educate your boys to respect women. Prepare them to be adaptable, compassionate, secured, well-versed, well-read, trustworthy, sensitive, stoical, well-dressed, humorous, witty, helpful, independant, a good cook and emotionally intelligent.

Does your child play truant from school very often? It is a matter of serious concern that needs to be addressed. Perhaps, he/she is being bullied, scorned, despised, facing a lot of indifferent attitude and insolent remarks from schoolmates or a few teachers.

I strongly suggest parents to stop finding faults in their children. Let them learn from their mistakes.  Be there to protect them from traps. Please don't ever shake their self-confidence. Never declare them a retard or any harsh words gushed out of fury because their minds are absorbing all the sentiments and baggage thrust upon them while screeching. It breaks their self-esteem, be gentle and supportive with them.

Children need a positive and humble atmosphere to blossom and flourish in beautifully. Peace ♥

Be a mother who raises a child who becomes a good human being and a succeasful leader who treats people beneath his stature with equal respect and love.

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