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Mind your Business, Darling!



A popular saying goes, "The best things in life are free." Yes, this saying holds true when it comes to mother nature. But definitely not when its about human nature. The only thing that is free regarding human nature is a combination of their jealousy, hostility and inferiority complex (or superiority?) resulting in dire consequences.

There are many examples to prove my statement. Travel a few years back to remind yourself of the time when you took that important decision about your career. You were pretty sure you wanted to be a flourishing and highly innovative fashion designer to spread your wings over the international markets. But since you hail from a family of engineers, almost each person you know disagreed to the extent of manipulating you to follow the legacy. As if that drama wasn't enough, then came the jibes and taunts from society filled with hidden meanings and sarcasm.  It was hard. You felt lonely in the struggle. Nevertheless, stood your ground and succeeded.

 Phew! Just why can't people mind their own business. I fail to understand why do some people derive a sadistic pleasure by inflicting pain on the innocent lives.  Make a positive contribution. Else don't smear someone's ambitious dreams of a secured future, with the filthy dust and quagmire of your politics.

Everyone has opinions and perceptions. It depends on the conduct of the person how he chooses to vocalise them. Do it without hurting anyone. You never know, someday you could be at the receiving end. That's when you'll realize how others feel while getting slinged with a negative retort. I'm sure nobody likes to experience it.

Therefore, treat others with the same amount of compassion and respect that you expect from others towards you. Nursing negative emotions can be highly toxic and harmful. Not only for your well-being but also for the relationships that matter the most to you. Harbour positive energies within to increase your divine aura. Like all good things take time but the best things happen to those who wait and sail through the sea with patience and perseverance.

♡ Live and Let Live ♡

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