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Right versus Wrong - secret to a successful relationship

Relationships require constant hard-work to keep the spark alive. This is a topsy-turvy road where you experience a kaleidoscope of a variety of sentiments and phases highlighting your growth with each mistake. Investing in a wrong relationship can break your heart affecting your life badly. Here is a distinction between the right and wrong person to help you mark a clear difference to make the right decision.

For the right person, you will be the most precious and special treasure despite many miseries and flaws you may be ridden with in life. This is because, you decide to overcome those obstacles, on the road to happiness, together as one unit. If you are in a healthy relationship, there is a telepathic connection where there is a natural understanding of each other's needs with respect and patience.  I am not saying that there won't be any problems at all. I'm bringing to light the truth that says in-spite of any adversities, you have faith in each other and you don't excuse yourself from the situation to break up and demean the foundation of any relationship. In a healthy relationship, there is liberty, progress, mutual respect, guts and strength to support each other, friendship, unconditional love and loyalty. Yes, we all enjoy that adrenaline rush during the initial phase but gradually it fades, what remains is the calming affect of the stability and trust in each other.

For the wrong person, even your worship and sacrifices, near to perfection, will be seen as an insanity and a sin. Even if you lay yourself flat, like a doormat, for them to walk over you, they'll complain that you're not flat enough to roller-coaster over you.

I strongly suggest my lovely readers to stay positive, hopeful and cordial yet determined because the right things happen at the right time when your good deeds shall eventually be paid off with increments and perks.

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