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Tried and Tested Relationship Hacks

At someone's request, here are the tried and tested relationship hacks that make love last longer:

Ignorance: Love is not rosy all the time. There will be times when you will disagree with your lover. So, anytime your better half says something nasty, I have seen the other half ignoring such things. Ignorance is bliss because you don’t want to make a mountain out of a molehill.

Tolerance: Anybody who wants to make their relationship work needs to have heightened tolerance. I’m not saying that you take their nonsense but practice tolerance when you know they love you but have turned bitter due to a crisis.

Laugh it off: When they pass a taunt or snide remarks at you for something that you find unreasonable and somewhat harmless, then learn to laugh it off. It not only creates a light-hearted atmosphere but also prevents the situation from becoming heated up.

Be Optimistic: As I said before, life isn’t always rosy because roses come with thorns. Keeping an optimistic state of mind can help you look at the brighter side of every situation. A positive mindset attracts a positive outcome. It has been observed that men get drawn to positive women. Women find optimistic men attractive and appealing. You can literally change a negative into positive by switching to optimism.

Patience: Patience is a virtue worth a million dollars. Yes, stop being impulsive and impatient. Like they say, good things come to those who wait. It takes years for a seed to turn into a flourishing tree bearing fruits to be savored later on. When you exercise patience, things unleash in their own time and pace. For example, you just met a guy whom you exchanged glances with and you feel a connection, You exchange numbers. But, if you straightaway reveal your hidden desires, you might push him away. With patience, you will get to know his feelings, his thoughts, his preferences to help you make the right decision.

Be alert, Be smart: Don’t be the carefree girl who lives in her own sweet bubble. Not always. Be vigilant. Be alert for the tell-tale signs that your lover doesn’t always put in words but expresses through gestures or behavior. Learn to read between the lines. Don’t blindly trust or blindly love anyone, no matter how true. Always take your brain with you. Don’t always fall for their lame excuses or lies. Be smart enough to catch his lies or excuses.

For now, this is all I could think of. I hope you enjoy reading this blog as much as I enjoyed writing it.
Thanks for reading :) 
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